Quitting Your Terror Of Girls
- 10.30.11
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You are going to have to understand how to overcome your fear of girls. Ever been out and seen a ridiculously gorgeous woman standing close by? How terribly would you want to talk to her? Before you can take a step, it strikes. Paralyzing fear. You get inside your own mind, and start to worry over nonsensical things. Then she’s vanished.
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Luckily, although maybe not, most guys get the feeling. Who cares if other dudes have this issue? How are you to get over fright of girls?
You’re going to man up, that’s what. Everybody gets scared, but it is what you do with your feelings of fear that turns you into a man. Don’t shove away the terror the next time you want to go talk to a girl, accept it and go ahead regardless. You may strike out, and you may feel lame, but you should be proud. Roll with the punches, and approach someone else.
The point I’m trying to get across is, as always, repetition. Wasn’t riding a bike hard? I bet you could still ride it today.
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If you approach enough, you’ll get used to all the hiccups, even when the girls act rudely. It’s not a big deal after all, there are billions of women out there, who cares if a few are rude? See, the anxiety and fear you suffer is a natural response your brain produces when introduced to a new environment or stimuli. If you persist in these circumstances, you’ll get used to them. To put it basically, you need to suffer through the fear so you don’t in the future. Doing it so often will result not only in your enhanced social skills, but in a diminishing return of the anxiety you feel when around them.
I know it’s hard, but I have every confidence in you, if I could pull this off, you can do it.
If you’re interested, I’ve got another article on body language and how it relates to seduction which you can check out at Body Language. Thanks for reading guys.
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