Let’s talk about how to flirt with a girl. When you’re first starting out, flirting can be a bit awkward, but with a bit of practice, it’s really quite fun.

In fact let me say something before we dive into this. Flirting should be enjoyable. Don’t take it too seriously, and don’t just shout out offensive comments to women because that’s not fun. This just straight up won’t get you anywhere.

At it’s core, flirting will do two messages. First, it lets her know that you interest in her. And it should also leave the woman feeling better about herself.

This is how you should flirt with a woman:

The first part of flirting is to let her know that you are into her. This is important because it will discretely let her know that you see her as more than a friend. And the best technique to let her know that you think she’s sexy is to tell her that she is sexy. Not cute. Not hot. Just sexy!

Now you can’t just blurt this out coming from nowhere. If you do that, you’ll just turn into one of those drunk idiots she always complains about at bars. This is where the second part of the flirting recipe comes into play.

Make sure that flirting becomes something that the woman appreciates. You can never guess what sort of mood a girl is in (and thus how your attempt at flirting will impact her) unless you have a conversation with her. She has to put at least a small amount of herself out there. Get her to tell you what she thinks about something. Then adapt that as something you can use to flirt with her.

Here is an example of what you might do to flirt with a girl. If she tells you that she’s majoring in French, then have her say something flirty in French. Then tell the girl something like, “Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore. It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.”

Did you notice? I just told her that I found her sexy and complimented her on something she shared.

Now she could keep this up and flirt back. She could drive me over the edge by whispering to me in French all night or anything else for that matter. That’s just how simple it can be.

Another way to get even faster results is to use pushing and pulling. Begin with something that will give the woman the impression that you are rejecting her. Then you follow that up by immediately pulling her back in with a compliment. This builds up some tension that will stop her from thinking you are dull.

Now let’s have a closer look at that last example.

“Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore.” — This part is the first push. It seems a bit insulting.

“It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.” — This part is the proceeding pull. You just have to change an insult into a good thing.

This is the secret to flirting with a woman. This is actually really easy once you’ve done it a few times and it seems natural. But after you get it you are golden. So get out there and meet some women.

If you enjoyed this article, also check out How to Flirt with Women, Conversations with Girls, and Review of Double Your Dating.

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