After approaching a woman, what you say can help ensure that things keep going well.

Try this advice to make your conversations with women more fun. Note:  Take a minute to let it click with you that she is her own person before you test this.

Don’t make things too easy for her. Keep her on her toes. Make her put a little effort in. Sometimes you’ll be tested by girls. When she does then, throw her a curve ball and test her. When girls test guys, most men will either try to act macho or become a doormat afraid of offending her. Both of these will kill attraction.You will only be shooting yourself in the foot.

When you find yourself in this predicament, do one of two things. If she asks you something like how old you are or what your career is, you can either:

First, you can ask her “What has you asking that?”  This only comes off well if you’re sincere.  Otherwise you’ll just seem like a jerk. This will gives her an opportunity to ask you what she really wants to know.

In case you missed that, you answer questions with questions. Don’t over do it though or you might seem shifty.

Second, you can tell her something that is funny but obviously just a joke. Make it your goal to say the most embarrassing thing you can think of. The dumber it is, the better. It just illustrates that you are confident enough to make jokes about yourself. Very few guys are bold enough to even kid around about something like their dating lives. If you try this and it is clear that you are only joking, the woman will see you as very charming. If at any time you don’t know what to say to a woman, just say something to make her smile.

Also hit on the girl a little. If you don’t let her know that you are attracted to her, she may begin to think of you as a friend. I’m guessing you don’t want this. Letting a woman know you’re in to her isn’t very tough. Don’t try to think up some orchestrated lecture about why the two of you are perfect for each other. That will not win her over. Simply keep chatting with her until she brings up something that you are really impressed with. Then say something like “That’s really attractive how you pour so much energy into your art,” or “I think girls that can bake muffins are really attractive. “

Don’t even be concerned about it sounding rational. It can be a bit strange. In fact it’s usually better if it is unique.

So, I hope you got a couple of good pointers on what to say to a woman. This isn’t brain surgury. Don’t take it too seriously.

If you liked this article, please also take a look at What to Talk About with Girls, How to Start a Conversation with a Woman, and Getting Girls’ Phone Numbers

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