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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …

A Life Coach for people with confidence or self-esteem problems is extremely valuable in addressing this next question. Women seem to suffer the most from self-esteem, sense of abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Life Coaching for Women is one solution to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just destined to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to our survey concerning love and the Law of Attraction, I am assuming you have been thinking about creating a relationship for yourself. Many people decide to keep out of intimate relationships. And that need not be the case for a person who has given up because they have continuously failed in the past. Not a thing is wrong with wanting to be without an intimate relationship. Your life can be fulfilling and fantastic with any choice you make.

As long as you realize you are deciding that instead of throwing up your hands out of frustration that you haven’t met the relationship of your dreams. You can have it all in a relationship and in life.

If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you’d see a wonderful, magnificent, brilliant, connected person. Then life starts to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from day one what we need to look out for, stop us, caution us, and attempt to shelter us, effectively having us adhere to their fear and projections of insecurity instead of tuning in to our personal energy. OK, I will give you as brand new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But soon following they understand to do things by themselves, self-actualization should be part of the training for the little ones.

Well-meaning adults want to do the correct thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only creates a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded at an early age.

Neurological research now explains to us that until we are 7, we are so open and available to receive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We go around in a sort of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is no question we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, thoughts about a flawed nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we have heard the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not drop that. The recurring message says you are unworthy, you can’t believe in yourself, you don’t know what you’re doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They simply intended for our well-being. But you can see how easily we have been whisked away from our inherent beauty and brilliance.

I suggest that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a break. First off, it is not your fault. It is not even the fault of your elders. They were programmed that way as well. You can stop the prevalence of lower self-esteem on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have anything you desires.

Do your very best to express yourself love and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE lovable. And that IS the reality!

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