Great!  You scored a date!  Job well done.  Here are a couple of things to remember to help you out on the date.

On a first date, you can discover what sort of woman you have on your hands. I do not advise distracting dates like music shows or movies. These make it hard to really have a conversation with the girl. Intead plan boring dates. Getting a cup of coffee is ideal because it is cheap and doesn’t feel as serious as a traditional date. Coffee dates are great because you can just get up and walk out without the hassle of paying a check if the woman ends up being totally rude.

Your goal for the first date is only to get to know the woman. This is the most important thing to remember. Yes, she’s really hot, but don’t try to rush things.  Get to know the woman first before you decide if she’s worth your effort. Learn if she’s a good girl. Don’t try to memorize a bunch of canned questions to ask her. They come across as very strained and lame. Just talk to her about herself and get to know what she is like. The most important thing is to only ask her questions if you genuinely care about what her response is.  You are here to get to know her, not entertain her or pass time.

Even to this day I still get anxious before I go on a first date.  Getting to know a new person and learning what makes her tick is one of the most thrilling things I can think of.  First dates are typically pretty easy, so don’t sweat this too much.

Here’s another pointer for first dates. Try not to set your expectations up too high. Your only goal is to find out if this woman is worth spending more time with. Keep your expectations down to earth.  She is probably not going to go home with you at the end of the date. A lot of girls decide ahead of time that they will only go so far on a first date. So, don’t fight it.  Just get to know the girl for the time being.

When you part ways at the end of the date, hug her and give her a kiss on her cheek. This is an amazing way to end a first date if things go well. This will come off as pretty smooth and charming. This lets her know that you are a good catch. An trustworthy man that is not just trying to score.

The most important thing, though, is to remember to enjoy yourself. Get her to laugh. She is likely nervous about the date as well. Taking the time to laugh will have you both feeling better. Make up nonsensical stories about yourself. Not only will this make her laugh, it will let her know that you are a confident man. Tell her something so laughably absurd that she knows you’re just joking like “My mom drove me over here. She is waiting for me to finish up here in the grocery store parking lot down the street. I don’t want her waiting too long, so I really have to get on my way.”

So keep these tips in mind on your next date. Keep in mind that your goal is to get to know her to see if she’s worth more of your time. So don’t get too stressed out.

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