Basic Strategies On How To Pick Up Women
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Most men have the misconception that the hardest part about knowing how to pick up women is the right approach. The stress on first impression is over rated but is important nevertheless. However it is how you move forward after creating the initial good impression that matters.
The key to successfully picking up women is to be confident and project an air of self assuredness and invulnerability. You don’t have to be cocky or brash, though sometimes you could be surprised to see how many women get turned on by the bad boy attitude as well. Being scared or having a gutless attitude would turn of almost any women, except those who are dominatrix’s.
There are many fish in the sea and if your charm doesn’t work with one woman you can move on to the next, just make sure that your lack of success is not publicized too much. Using corny lines and coming onto women in a very unsophisticated way might work with very dumb women but can often lead to rebuttal from women who don’t prefer cave men.
Be sure to radiate confidence and a positive attitude while at the same time maintaining charm and sophistication. Women respond positively to men with a chivalrous gentlemanly attitude. Even if you don’t have one, try to cultivate it. This would be the first step in learning how to pick up women.
Having the gift of the gab is another quality that can help you on the way to learning how to pick up women. If you have a great sense of humor you can attract women in droves even if you lack charm or sophistication.
It is important to note that you should not be turning yourself into a clown, while you are busy making women laugh their butts off some slick macho guy would sneak in and chat them up and take advantage of the lively mood that you have enveloped a group of women in. The idea is to be the regular fun loving guy who likes to have a good laugh. Everybody wants to have fun and this is true with women everywhere. If you let them enjoy themselves in your company, you can be sure to have success with your approach.
Once you have made them comfortable and liking your company, the next step to know about how to pick up women are ways to get their phone number. Never ask a women for her number. Always make sure that they either give it you on their own accord or you give yours to them. There is never any hurry to do this.
Always let the oven heat up before you put the bun in. Wait for the right moment till they air is charged with amorous attraction and you are confident that the women in whose company you have been wishes to see more of you. Then fake an interruption and make an excuse to leave their company while making it clear you want to see more of them and casually write your number on a piece of paper and give it to them. If would be all done with so fast that they would be sitting there staring at your number and missing all the excitement that they had until then.
The other way to get a woman’s number is choose the right time for you to leave their company and to let them know how much you wish to see them again and what a good time you had with them. Then slowly let them figure out how to help you do that by giving your number. This mostly works and even if it doesn’t, you can always take command and give them your number if you seem them confused. Always make sure you don’t wait around till the end when things become dull and drab and both you and the woman are tired from the drinks and constant banter. Learning how to pick up women is like marketing a product. The only difference is that the product is you and you need to be aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Also make sure that you don’t come across as a player as most women would be wary of such men who play the dating game and are never serious.
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