Do you know that feeling when you are out on a date with a girl and suddenly the mood changes and you know you need to take things in a more physical direction, but you just couldn’t find the courage to kiss her?

Most guys will encounter this at some point in their dating lives, so don’t feel bad.  Personally, I used to be pretty good at getting dates, but I would blow it again and again because I didn’t know how to kiss a woman.

First, if you are getting girls to date you and you think there might be something romantic there, then you are a lot farther along than a lot of guys.  All you need to do is learn to take things more intimate.

You see the root of the problem is in your head. You are likely stuck wondering “How can I be sure that she is into me?” or “What can I do if she shoots me down?”.

None of this really matters.

There are no proven methods to know if a woman is attracted to you.

Instead move fast to figure out if she is the sort of woman you want to spend time with or not.

So you need to kiss her at a decent moment such as at the end of a date. With a little practice, you can simply feel when it is time to kiss her. Everything will seem heavy and you will know it is time.

As you go in to kiss her, she will respond in one of two ways.

First, the two of you will kiss and all kinds of exciting activities will ensure.

Or, she turns down your kiss. If this happens, be glad! You discovered fast that she isn’t worth your time and you can now turn your attention to other women.

Just say something calm like, “Well, you can’t blame me for giving it a try. ” or “Take it as a compliment. “  Wrap up the date as fast as you can. Treat her like a friend and don’t let things turn weird.

From there, everything is in her hands. If she comes to the conclusion she made a mistake, it is up to her to call you. But leave it to her. You will be spending time with girls who do like you romantically.

Here is a personal example of how to kiss a woman.

Last summer, I had a date with a girl I really wanted to see. Occasionally, you meet a woman that just hits all your buttons in just the right ways. This girl was a perfect example of one of those.

I took her out to lunch at one of my favorite places in the city. After taking her home, she invited me up to show me her artwork. We sat in her living room and talked.

Then things just fell silent.

The moment was just right to make my move. I didn’t know what would happen, but I took a leap of faith anyway. I let the awkward moment hang for a while, then I said, “I really wan to kiss you. “  Then I leaned over and kissed her.

At first there was some hesitation, but she quickly let go to enjoy the moment. It’s critical not to throw in the towel at the first sign of resistance. She will let you know if she doesn’t want to make out. But you will probably find she will put up a little resistance, but that will quicly fade.

You should really stay on top of things while the two of you are kissing. A lot of women will try to do what they are used to the first few times you make out. Be firm and direct with your kissing and she will relax and let you take the lead.

After that, I gazed into her eyes and told her “You have no idea how long I’ve wanted to do that. “  She seemed to like that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is how you can kiss a woman the right way. Yes, it can be hard to put it all on the line and risk being shot down, but that’s part of the game.

If you liked this article, please also check out Guide to Kissing Women, Flirting with Women, and How to Turn a Girl On

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