Ok guys, do you ever feel like you just can’t be natural when it comes to talking to women? Are you a complete ’open mouth insert foot’ and ending up disappointed in your romantic life because you keep turning women off when you communicate with them? Then you see some dudes who don’t seem to be any smarter than you or better looking and women just seem to be totally interested in them. How does that work? Well, if you are ready to understand what you must know about communicating with women then here are ten ways to get your act together:

To start with you gotta quit trying to impress her. Women aren’t interested in you trying to make up their mind for them about how they should feel about you. If you honestly want to be able to speak to a woman you better be yourself and let her decide what she thinks about you.

The second thing you must master is keeping your compliments about how hot she is to yourself. Believe me, if she’s nice to look at, she knows she is. She’s had guys saying that to her for her whole life, so what’s the big deal if you tell her the same thing? If you must tell her something nice, find something about her character or her clothes.

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The third thing is that you should not hesitate to enter her space. This means that you touch her lightly on the arm when you talk or at least touch one of her possessions such as her handbag or her cell phone. You see, girls have this kind of sixth sense and they can tell if you are uneasy. Then they get uncomfortable and when that happens they simply make up their mind that they don’t like feeling that way and they drop you like a bad habit.

The fourth thing you must understand is boundaries. If you can see that a women is ready to wrap up the conversation and you turn into that clingy man who attempts to retain her attention she is going to shut you off like a light switch. Think about it, she could be preoccupied or maybe she is just a little uncomfortable because she is kind of interested in you. Either way, if you seem desperate she is going to drop you like a bad habit.

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The fifth thing to master is the art of ’negging’. for example, you point out something about her that is unappealing or even unattractive. Just do it in a low key way and don’t be cruel or degrading. This will make her feel like she has to compensate for it and before too long she will be all over you in an attempt to win your approval.

Sixth, we move on to sexual tension. Now this is the one which puts the misfortunate nice guys out of the game when it comes to dating. You see, sexual attraction between a male and a woman requires some friction for it to be effective. Which means that you oppose her and even test her in a teasing sort of way.

The seventh thing is establishing comfort. The issue is that most guys try to do this by bending to her every need and being a sweetheart. Sorry, that is going to cause her to feel really uneasy. Why? Because a girl feeling comfortable is all about her trusting your ability to protect her, being a nice boy just doesn’t do the trick when it comes to that.

That brings us to the eighth principle and that is being the bad boy rather than the soft hopeless romantic. You see, a girl is not attracted to the soft hopeless romantic because she is scared that he won’t have the ability to make her feel safe. Being the rough around the edges bad boy is going to cause her to feel at ease when she is with you and because she feels comfortable she is going to become more comfortable.

Number nine, take initiative. Women are a lot better at forgiving guys for taking initiative or doing something wrong than they are to forgive a guy who is sluggish or uncertain of what he wants. If you wait around to understand what she thinks of you before you do something, don’t be taken aback if she ends up being swept up by a man who will.

Finally, pursue the woman who is a bit ’out of reach’ and who may not seem that she even wants a man in her life. A lot of men are simply too scared of a confident woman. This simply means that there is less competition so if you are the guy who takes a chance to pursue the seemingly unattainable woman you are most likely the one who is going to get to have her.

Just be sure to practice each one of these strategies and don’t falter unless you want to end up having soda and pie with the nice guys on weekend nights. Have fun!

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